وأنا عمري 4 أعوام : أبي هو الأفضل
When I was 4 Yrs Old : My father is THE BEST

• وأنا عمري 6 أعوام : أبي يعرف كل الناس
When I was 6 Yrs Old : My father seems to know everyone

• وأنا عمري 10 أعوام : أبي ممتاز ولكن خلقه ضيق
When I was 10 Yrs Old : My father is excellent but he is short tempered

• وأنا عمري 12عاما : أبي كان لطيفا عندما كنت صغيرا
When I was 12 Yrs Old : My father was nice when I was little

• وأنا عمري 14 عاما : أبي بدأ يصبح أكثر تحسسا
When I was 14 Yrs Old : My father started being too sensitive

• وأنا عمري 16 عاما : أبي لا يمكن أن يتماشى مع العصر الحالي
When I was 16 Yrs Old : My father can’t keep up with modern time

• وأنا عمري 18 عاما : أبي ومع مرور كل يوم يصبح أصعب
When I was 18 Yrs Old : My father is getting less tolerant as the days pass by

• وأنا عمري 20 عاما : من الصعب جدا أن أسامح أبي ، أستغرب كيف إستطاعت أمي أن تتحمله
When I was 20 Yrs Old : It is too hard to forgive my father, how could my Mum stand him all these years

• وأنا عمري 25 عاما : أبي يعترض على كل ما افعله
When I was 25 Yrs Old : My father seems to be objecting to everything I do

• وأنا عمري 30 عاما : من الصعب جدا أن أتفق مع أبى ، هل ياترى تعب جدى من أبي عندما كان شابا
When I was 30 Yrs Old: It’s very difficult to be in agreement with my father, I wonder if my Grandfather was troubled by my father when he was a youth

• وأنا عمري 40 عاما: أبي رباني في هذه الحياة مع كثير من الضوابط، ولابد أن أفعل نفس الشيء
When I was 40 Yrs Old: My father brought me up with a lot of discipline, I must do the same

• وأنا عمري 45 عاما : أنا محتار ، كيف أستطاع أبي أن يربينا جميعا
When I was 45 Yrs Old: I am puzzled, how did my father manage to raise all of us

• وأنا عمري 50 عاما: من الصعب التحكم في أطفالي، كم تكبد أبي من عناء لأجل أن يربينا ويحافظ علينا
When I was 50 Yrs Old : It’s rather difficult to control my kids, how much did my father suffer for the sake of upbringing and protecting us

• وأنا عمري 55 عاما: أبي كان ذا نظرة بعيدة وخطط لعدة أشياء لنا ، أبي كان مميزا ولطيفا .
When I was 55 Yrs Old: My father was far looking and had wide plans for us, he was gentle and outstanding.

• وأنا عمري 60 عاما: أبي هو الأفضل
When I became 60 Yrs Old: My father is THE BEST

• استغرقت هذه الدورة كاملة ٥٦ عاما ليعود إلى نقطة البداية عند الـ 4 أعوام ’ أبي هو الأفضل ‘
Note that it took 56 Yrs to complete the cycle and return to the starting point ‘My father is THE BEST ‘

• فلنحسن إلى والدينا قبل أن يفوت الأوان ولندع الله أن يعاملنا أطفالنا أفضل مما كنا نعامل والدينا .
Let’s be good to our parents before it’s too late and pray to Allah that our own children will treat us better than the way we treated our parents

قال تعالى :

' وَقَضَى رَبُّكَ أَلاَّ تَعْبُدُواْ إِلاَّ إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلاَهُمَا فَلاَ تَقُل لَّهُمَآ أُفٍّ وَلاَ تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلاً كَرِيمًا '
’ وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُل رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا ‘

رسالة من رجل عاش هذه المراحل فأحب ان يلخصها للعبرة

A message from a man who lived all these stages, and he summarized the story briefly
اللهم اغفر لنا ولوالدينا ولمن له حق علينا
وارزقنا الفردوس الاعلى من الجنة..

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Q: Were you always on the deen? I mean like did you have any bad past, and did that help you overcome so many, and reach this level. What advice can you give someone who is struggling with such a thing.

Asalamul’alaykum. Eid Mubarak!

Now onto your question, no I was not ‘always’ on the deen. Well, I do not prefer people saying ‘on’ rather practicing sounds much better with this topic.

So for me I never use to pray, I didn’t know much about our religion, I fasted without salaah, subhanallah. And the list goes on, however one thing I managed to keep close to my heart, and this one thing kept me inches away from astray. This one thing was the powerful words from our creator. The Quran, I use to and still love its refreshing words. Alhamdulilah I depended on the Quran.

My past yes did help me overcome plenty. Meaning without me experiencing all of this, and going through guilt. I wouldn’t be standing here today. My past somehow turned out as a guidance alhamdulilah.

One advice I will kindly past onto you is to NEVER GIVE UP. Never let the shaydan make you believe that Allah will not forgive you. Never stop making dua for yourself and others in need. Never stop praying. Because Allah is always ready to hear you pleading towards him. That’s whats amazing about Allah. So always stay positive and never slack on the deen. Keep forcing, and Insha’Allah Allah will guide you.

I also will make Dua for you.

 

 

 


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